I’m going to let you in on just a little secret – males and ladies consider intercourse differently.
The 2 individuals in a wedding are coming in to the wedding sleep with various means of approaching intimacy that is physical. The visual, the feeling, the foreplay, the “feeling sexy”, the libido, the stimulation as we learn about our spouse and learn what they like and don’t like, and what we like and don’t like– it’s all a balancing act.
I am aware some days that We don’t feel sexy and that means often that sex could be the very last thing on my brain. However it doesn’t need to be this way. It doesn’t need to be me personally vs. him.